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The imaginary struggling.

Every single event happening in front of us is a opportunity to learn something from it , but how often we pay attention to it . I assume none!  Or very rarely few out of millions and billions .
Why is this negligence , why people don't want to learn from others mistake and  don't feel blessed to have what they have and to laugh at the moment .
They attempt to create a wall of sadness or wishes of what they want instead of making a scenery of what they have . I know its quite real and happens with every single individual but the question is why not apply some effort to change the way we see the world .
Lets start with a small incidence happened with mohan , one of my friend who was more into i want to live like others and why cant i get what he has .
Now mohan was traveling to Delhi from kolkata . His train was about to arrive at kolkata station for boarding. The environment of railway station has a lot to teach if we care too. There was a lot of rush and people were running for life , while mohan was sitting on a bench thinking about all his failures and attempts of not clearing IAS exam and how is just disappointed with his inabilities to deal with it . It was making him weak and his performance was degrading while he was helping his father in his business , unknowingly that he has the capability and even if he didn't make it out in IAS or IBPS he is still a bright and sharp minded guy. In between of all these thoughts he came back to senses hearing that the train is expected to arrive at platform no 1 shortly .
People started adjusting and getting prepare to board the train and soon a guy with mental inability was resisting to board the train and was moving away from the platform while his parents were constantly making effort to stop him . The train arrived during this scene and the parents somehow managed to board him to the train .
Mohan on the other side watched this incidence because these kind of activities attract the human mind and we tend  find out whats wrong .After boarding the train mohan started to analize the situation and started relating that to him .
Mohan started thinking -"i am  healthy and have a perfectly balanced mind . I don't have any physical inability . Still i have become a prisoner of my mind and let the failure affect my present . "
That was the day he started treating himself with respect and started counting what he have instead of what he don't.
In the same way if we see our-self and compare it with the people who are not even have the capability or resources  to earn their bread then how blessed we are !
Learn the art of appreciating what you have and world will be a happy place to live . Don't let the failure create the imaginary walls of struggle which is actually not there . Learn to be the master of your mind or else when the mind takes the charge it destroys ones inner self .

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