a little pause in Life :)

The very first thing a human does in this world is cry . A baby is born crying and till the end of his/her life it goes on...... So, give your life a little pause and think..... Is it the way you want your life to be? Is this what you actually needed? Was this the desired return of your hard work? Surprisingly, the answer of most of the people will be of-course a silent no, Arz kiya hai............ tawazoo chahunga......... Kyun apni jindagi gawa rahe ho? Kyun apni jindagi gawa rahe ho? Uljhano se toh fursat milti nahi........ Toh phir in uljhano me kyu jiye ja rahe ho? Nice one nah ;) i know..... :P I am becoming a poet day by day :D Well, Monsoon was not as  pleasant as  i thought it would be.  I failed..... :( I got scolding for not doing my work on time, Left the one i loved just for  her better and the worst was i didn't got the tickets of Ek Tha Tiger first day first show contrary to which some of my friends saw it twice the 1st day...

W hen an Elephant crosses the streets then every dog starts barking at him but what keeps him cool is the attitude which say " Let them bark I Don't Care " The example is simple but Gyaan  bahut Great hai ! The Funda goes like this ,Till the day you live your life as you want to ,you will enjoy it, jindagi ke maje loge , B ut the day you start listening to others or the day their view about you will force you to change yourself ,then you wont live your life . then you will live as they want you to live. A s their is a Saying "Listen to all but do only what you want to " S o never let anyone else describe you ,  Build  your own definition ,  Be your own identity, J ust remember their are thousands to speak bad about you, its you who has to decide that whose words should affect you, chalo ab jayda deep meh mat jao , J ust follow the Unknown Approch   If someones says something to you just lisen to it and let it go ... and be...

Is the half Filled Bottle , half Empty? P ata hai what happens , We always try to see the Dark side of any event or circumstances . Indian minds are prepared iss tarah se that even if  the worst situation arises ,they will be able to survive, B ut kabhi -  kabhi  you should also look into the best part of that event, L ife can't be easy all the time , So Sometime , something small can also make difference ," Someone said  it : " If you find happiness in small things toh jindagi will be much better". The thing is that we should try to enjoy chote se chota moment of life , I realised this gyaan the day when i felt earthquake , and Fortunately i Survived !, then i thought , aaj toh gaya tha , from that day i started enjoying life . As life doesn't come with Guarantee! so sometimes stop thinking about the consequences, and live it your way . Never get attached to something that only spoils your mood because Life is too sho...

I am alone in the Crowd of Millions.... Well these types of dialouges generally comes into ones mind when they had breakup or something bad happned to them.. Kyu sahi bola na... Waise practicallly dekha jaye then my post title " The Empty Crowd " Is INVALID !!! but emotionally it happens.. So, does a single failure should affect u itna that you have to get so depressed ..i dnt think so...and if someone thinks that this effect is practicle then.. the number of  sucess is thousand times more then failure..So you should never feel alone.. As i olways say.. Enjoy even the smallest work  you complete ...that will make your Life worth living... and this small hapiness will Make even the toughest  job easy... I toh follow this step only.... My friends know that even  if a recharge in their mobile shows " SUCCESSFULLY RECHARGED " I ask them for party..!! Sounds Crazy.. but if being crazy keeps me alive ,then i will remain the same ...and even ask u guys to follow ...

The worst part of morning is when you are in sleep and suddenly your phone rings. But it becomes very precious if the voice other side is the one U want to hear... Jayda romantic ho gaya na... Chalo!! Lets start the day with beautiful song from rock-star.. Tum ho pass mere pass mere~~~ Awesome movie. Some people are like weather ,Their mood swings in seconds... So as the opinion about you changes with change in situation... My statement mayb contradictory but One should never try to create impression on anyone... As people's opinion about u will change with every single act of ours.. everybody wants you to be the way they want... You may do thousands of good things , but 1 negative act can ruin everything.. this transition from holding a good image  to  bad image,is never Permanent. So better live life as u want to ,, People always worry about others perspective, but i say, as far as it doesn't seem wrong doing it ...

Dil Toh Baacha Hai Ji.... Well this what I believe in. The best thing of a Child is the purest way of thinking everything with his heart and not the Mind . As we grow old the people around us force us to think with our mind... Mai toh kehta hun ji... Being bacha is always fun. Never let the baacha inside you die. Lemme give u an Example :- When someone comments on a child he takes it as a compliment and the same comments creates fight between the grown-ups... When a child cry's ,he forgets after sometime why he cried , but if u hurt a mature person he takes revenge... The pressure of life doesn't allow anyone to keep the bacha alive inside you.. but who manages to keep it alive will never fail... A mind without tension is best at creativity .... and if u think maturely den aap kabhi tension free nai reh paoge... One more merit of baacha concept is...  You are loved by all... now it might sound interesting to boys ,,, but it really works.. ...

Woh Kehte hai na jo hota hai aache ke liye hota hai...sahi kehte hai Guys , the most disastrous thing is to keep ur self free....well it olways lead to horroifying results.. atleast it happens with me... a free mind Always think something weird!! Personal experience.. So, always remain engaged! not with a girl/boy but with yourself...with activities you love to do!! most of the times I have seen someone wasting the talent inside him/her...just because he has stuckd at a point from where...neither he turns back nor he proceeds!! mere dost... life goes on and waits for non.... so why to stuck at the point which is like full stop... Remember a fullstop not olways means the ending of a story...most of the time it means a starting of a beutiful line.. So dont losse hope is the morral of the story... Aaj kal is the fashion of girls becoming paro and boys devdas ... Just remember as i said earlier " you r beutiful " so move on,  People say if its not your's ...