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Life that was ! ! !


"Good afternoon, This person who left us with the bag full of memories is my friend Ashish Chhabra . "
This is how i want my friends to say  the eulogy to be read at my funeral. 
I know its crazy to talk about something like this , but everybody have a dream about how they want to be remembered after they are gone . They work for their whole life to make an impression on the world who will remember them after their departure and this is the reason i want people to say my eulogy in this mentioned way. I want to leave an impression in such a way that even if my friends say a single sentence on the final day , the tear drops should be followed  by the sentence "he was such an idiot" . I want  my seniors to say "yes he was such a pain in the Ass ", he was always upto something and use to challenge every rule " many of my seniors would agree with this point i hope. (Saurav, ankit , minakshi di, pankaj bhaiya) . I want my dearest people to cherish the moment which we enjoyed , be it be a tour , a picnic or a small day out. I want them to remember me for the jokes we shared and the sorrows we discussed. 
I want them to say " now with whom i'll share those secrets which are only known to you".
I know its destined that those who came has to leave one day but i want them to remember always that yes a stupid was their at some point of time in their life. It is said that your juniors work on your path, i want them to walk the streets with happiness and live life like there will be no tomorrow. 
These are some of the imprints i want to leave behind me . These are some of the stories i want them to share after me. I may not be the perfect guy for the people around , but these are the qualities i want to be remembered after me .
We often work for our better tomorrow , but we often forget to live for today! What if this is the last blog of my life?
What if there is no tommorow for me! 

Think about it and do share the way you want yourself to be remembered ! 
 

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