a little pause in Life :)

Its been a Month and I am still Not sure that "Whether I got the answer to this so called word DESIRE " ? But in the process of finding a single act of Humans without a Desire all I got was quite healthy amount of things which human do for desire, Here is what I got :- Ishani a good friend of mine, Quite a philosopher type and a believer of gods Existence visits to a nearby temple on weekly basis. Every time she passes from the corner of the Temple, she finds a beggar who has lost his legs, how he lost it is even a mystery to her so do with me. So as per her schedule of visiting temple last week I joined her.While returning she put a coin in the "bank of chiller box "of that beggar and recited her gods name and we proceeded for home, in the midway I asked her why she recited her gods name while giving that money to him, She replied in a philosophical way as she always does , what she explained was :- " See Ashish we do a lot of things knowingly or un...

Tere jane ke baad zindagi toh hai , magar jindagi se koi aas nahi . tujhe bhulne ki chahat toh hai , magar ab chahat ki  woh pyaas nahi ! I don't know whether those words make sense or not, but the theme which goes behind those words are what most of the people are fighting to overcome!!               Emotions !!! Well sometime its good to be emotional, but carrying the emotions which  leads to nowhere will only make your journey harder! " Manjil ko pana koi badi baat nahi, bas bandhan ka moh aur  pyaar ki maya ko tyaagna hoga ," The only Gap between a Successful Person and an average person is the  Emotion which should have been buried in the past but is still travelling with him. I find a lot of people who are the victim of so Called " Emotional Attyachar " I don't say its easy to MOVE ON with your past, but sometime somethings are better left behind. One of my friend says she can't o...

Got a call last week from my friend Arun's office..was informed that I have to show up at their office on monday morning SHARP at 10 in the morning. Monday morning : The time is 10:15 am (15 mins late is kind of being on time i guess ! ) A sweet and beautiful receptionist came to me and said "Sir you are late! the meeting has commenced and now you have to wait till you are called inside"  I : ok! :-) I was waiting for Arun (my friend, who works at some good designation here) to Come. I was able to see the whole office from the Waiting room. People were busy with their pc's, Files & documents ,deadlines ,phone calls ,everything at a TIME.. pheww... So much to do !  The only thought passing through my mind was how do they do it, I mean so much at a time and there is no place for errors and mistakes.. a small mistake and things get screwed up "Are you kidding , its not my cup of tea " I Can't do it ! Excuse me Sir!, Arun sir has calle...

"Sunh Ranha hai na tu roo raha hu mai " . This Rhyme is on the head of all the people Struggling with  Hard Past and trying to recollect the Memories happened in the flash back, I have many friends who saw this latest flick 'Aashiqui 2' which has created quite a buzz in past few days. All of them came with a common review or summary, Describing that you will miss your ex after watching it ... you will fall in love Again! AGAIN??? The only question arising in my mind was Why Again ? Why Do some Incidence has to remind you that you still love someone? Why is that a romantic or sad flick reminds you of an unsuccessful story happened in past? Is there no way out to this so called 'Past' ? Well I still Don't have Answers to these Questions but life won't go on like this, Time changes, feeling changes, people changes, With time comes responsibility, maturity, politeness .. Does it mean that now those chapters are not as  important to you as th...

2013 , Well A new year  has arrived With lots of hope and Dreams ! Best wishes to all the people out there! What actually a new year is like !, Does any thing changes ? Does the sun seems bigger ? Is the earth started revolving around the moon this time ? There is actually nothing new apart from the year numbering ! but if you take it positively then this process brings new beginning , new hopes and new dreams , telling us to forget the past, live the present , And just for some moment stop worrying about the future ! " Kal jo gaya woh laut ke nahi aayega,  kal jo aayega woh hame kaun batayega,  jindagi toh iss pal meh hai mere dost ,  jile  isse, yeh pal dubara lautkar nahi aayega " Tried to convey the message in a poetic way ! Well lesson learned in the first few days of 2013 is that "  W ake ur everyday promising yourself to be more Awesome !  " and see how things changes ! kyunki if you keep on doi...

The very first thing a human does in this world is cry . A baby is born crying and till the end of his/her life it goes on...... So, give your life a little pause and think..... Is it the way you want your life to be? Is this what you actually needed? Was this the desired return of your hard work? Surprisingly, the answer of most of the people will be of-course a silent no, Arz kiya hai............ tawazoo chahunga......... Kyun apni jindagi gawa rahe ho? Kyun apni jindagi gawa rahe ho? Uljhano se toh fursat milti nahi........ Toh phir in uljhano me kyu jiye ja rahe ho? Nice one nah ;) i know..... :P I am becoming a poet day by day :D Well, Monsoon was not as  pleasant as  i thought it would be.  I failed..... :( I got scolding for not doing my work on time, Left the one i loved just for  her better and the worst was i didn't got the tickets of Ek Tha Tiger first day first show contrary to which some of my friends saw it twice the 1st day...

W hen an Elephant crosses the streets then every dog starts barking at him but what keeps him cool is the attitude which say " Let them bark I Don't Care " The example is simple but Gyaan  bahut Great hai ! The Funda goes like this ,Till the day you live your life as you want to ,you will enjoy it, jindagi ke maje loge , B ut the day you start listening to others or the day their view about you will force you to change yourself ,then you wont live your life . then you will live as they want you to live. A s their is a Saying "Listen to all but do only what you want to " S o never let anyone else describe you ,  Build  your own definition ,  Be your own identity, J ust remember their are thousands to speak bad about you, its you who has to decide that whose words should affect you, chalo ab jayda deep meh mat jao , J ust follow the Unknown Approch   If someones says something to you just lisen to it and let it go ... and be...